Defeat Disobedience

The Importance of Setting Limits for Your Child

When parents establish rules for their children it helps them feel safe and secure. Here are five ways set and maintain limits in your house:

https://health.usnews.com/wellness/for-parents/articles/2017-06-26/the-importance-of-setting-limits-for-your-child

How to positively set limits and state expectations:

https://www.kidsmatter.edu.au/mental-health-matters/social-and-emotional-learning/managing-behaviour-making-rules

When kids disobey, emotions can run high. Here are ten ways you can stick to the rules with your child:

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/sarah-maclaughlin-lsw/how-to-set-limits-for-kids_b_4610102.html


Why Training Your Child to Obey the First Time is Key

Requiring first time obedience can be taught in a loving way that will help keep your child safe. http://www.theteachermom.tips/single-post/2016/02/07/Training-5-Why-Training-First-Time-Obedience-is-Important

This article has the answer to the question “Why do you have to tell them five times?” and solutions to helping you with parenting strategies:

http://www.ahaparenting.com/blog/Obedience_Why_Do_You_Have_To_Tell_Them_Five_Times


Natural & Logical Consequences

How teachers and educators look at obedience and consequences in the classroom:

http://www.specialconnections.ku.edu/?q=behavior_plans/classroom_and_group_support/teacher_tools/natural_and_logical_consequences

How to make sure the consequences you give to your kids teach a helpful lesson that will help them in the long-term:

https://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/positive/disciplining-with-natural-consequences/

When to use or not use natural consequences: https://www.verywellfamily.com/natural-consequences-as-a-discipline-strategy-1094849


Chronic & Extreme Disobedience

Chronic disobedience and when to seek additional help: https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/gradeschool/Pages/The-Disobedient-Child.aspx

The negative effects extreme disobedience have on children and the home environment and information about conduct disorders and oppositional defiant disorder: https://www.livestrong.com/article/514280-extreme-disobedience-in-children/